Do you really love yourself ?
 
It might seems like a very simple question on which you might think that the obvious answer is a definite YES. But unfortunately not all of us can honestly and confidently said yes.
 
No one is harder on us than we are on ourselves.
 
Many times we look in the mirror and we see only our physical flaws.
"If only I am taller" , "If only I have better complexion", "If only I can be 5 kg slimmer", and many other wishes. 
 
Many times we remember only our mistakes when we look back on the day we've just spent.
We sometimes beat ourselves up even when we've done nothing wrong.
 
But guess what ?? Despite all those, others like us. Some even ….

Chinese New Year is just around the corner. At this time, normally most magazine will write predictions about what is your luck in the Year of Tiger.
Is this year a good year to start a new romance? Will you attract more fortune? Is better health destined for you? and many more …
Well, I'm not the kind of person who normally read all those things. It is not that I don't believe in what they say, but I just don't really take those writings seriously.
 
I believe the best way to predict our future is to create it,  so instead of spending time reading those predictions that was written, I prefer writing and creating what I want this year to be like. So this ….

Can women really have both great family and successful career at the same time?
Interestingly just within 1 week, similar question like the above was asked to me many times in many different occasions.
 
I am very fortunate to be able to enjoy the best of both world, building my business and at the same time building my family too.
so if you asked me whether women can really have both family and career together, my answer would be a definite YES ! 
 
Yesterday I had lunch with Violet Lim, the founder of Lunch Actually,  Asia’s first lunch dating company. I first knew her 2 years ago from the Spirit Of Enterprise (SOE) Ceremony. Both of us were the Winner for that year (2008).
It was fun talking to her since ….

20 days in 2010 has passed.
Have you started working on your goals and visions this year?
If the answer is NO, then what is stopping you?
Start today, Start where you stand 
Right here, Right NOW !
 
 
 
Here's a beautiful  poem that I hope can motivate you to get started
 
Start Where You Stand
By Berton Braley

Start where you stand and never mind the past,
The past won't help you in beginning new,
If you have left it all behind at last
Why, that's enough, you're done with it, you're through;
This is another chapter in the book,
This is another race that you have planned,
Don't give the vanished days a backward look,
Start where you stand.

 
The world won't care about your old defeats
If you can start anew and win success;
The future ….

I started blogging since June last year, and the more I blog, the more I love doing it.
 
After blogging for few months, I realized it is definitely important to upload a good quality picture inside each and every posts.
So early this year, I've decided to include that into one of my new year resolutions.
 
Well, I'm not a professional photographer, and due to my busy schedule, I don't think I'll have the time to actually learn it  (at least not this year), therefore I thought of 2 steps that I need to do in order to be able to shot good pictures.
 
Step 1: Find a good camera
Step 2: Learn Photoshop
 
When you read this post, I know you probably will recommend ….

I posted this status about leadership quality, and one of my FB friend post a comment asking me what do I think will make a great leader ? and who is my favorite leader?
 
 

 
Initially I thought of replying back and post my anwser back to my Facebook Page, but half way writing I realised that my post become so long, so I decided to give my reply in my blog instead. Also, with that, more people can read.
 
First Question: What do I think will make a great leader?
 
I believe there were few characteristic that many great leaders all around the world have in common
Firstly, just like what I wrote earlier in my FB post, A great leader has the ….

 
 Definition of ‘food’ in the dictionary tells you that it refers to simply any nourishing substance that is eaten, drunk, or otherwise taken into the body to sustain life, provide energy, promote growth, and so on. However, what does really good food mean? This kind of food not only gives you the nourishments, but at the same time, it triggers the sensation in your tongue and makes you want to go back for more. Now, food is an indispensible part of our lives especially for Singaporean.
 

However, we would often wonder, where to eat next? It is my pleasure to get to meet with the food ‘guru’ Dr Leslie Tay. He shared with us about his food blog and the ….

I read this story about a month back. It was shared by one of my friend. A beautiful story that has brought tears into my eyes. I thought it is something that is worth sharing. . . . . . . . . . .
 
 
4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. ‘cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, ….

There is no better way to motivate yourself than listening to powerful and inspirational songs. 
Songs that can energize us, pumps us up and build our confidence.
 
I've shared with you all before 20 inspirational songs that I love, now here is th 20 POWER songs that never fail to put a smile on my face. Everytime I listen to it, it just makes me want to take action !
 
20 POWER Songs
(in random order)
1. Live will never be the same (Haddaway)
2. The power (Snap)
3. Get ready for this(2 Unlimited)
4. Walking on sunshine (Katrina and the Waves)
5. We are the champion (Queens)
6. Eye of a tiger (Survivor)
7. Final Countdown (Europe)
8. I gotta feeling (Black Eyed Pea)
9. It's my life  (Bon Jovi)
10. We will rock you (Queens)
11. Keep on moving (Five)
12. Let's get it started (Black ….

Imagine a life in which you woke up every morning excited about the day ahead and certain that, when you went to sleep at night, you would be able to say, “This was a great day!” …
 
Imagine knowing that no matter what challenges you faced in your relationships, your work, or your family, you would always remain centered, calm, and clear …
 
Imagine having a source of confidence and wisdom inside yourself that you could count on to be a constant wellspring of strength and inspiration …
 
Imagine what it would be like if you knew exactly what you needed to do to make each and every moment in your life one of great happiness, great contentment, and great peace …
 
The experiences ….